Saturday, December 3, 2011

Parenting Level: 0 to Hero



Our children; They See, They Do.

Entri pada kali ini adalah berkaitan dengan "parenting." Apa itu parenting ? Baiklah, bersumberkan thefreedictionary.com, parenting is the rearing of a child or children, especially the care, love and guidance given by a parent. Kalau dalam bahasa Melayu, maksudnyer ialah didikan yg diberikan kepada anak-anak merangkumi  penjagaan, kasih sayang dan tunjuk ajar yg diberikan oleh ibu bapa. 

Kita sambung pula dengan classification of parenting styles. Klasifikasinya terbahagi kepada 4 iaitu seperti gambar rajah 1 di bawah:


Gambar rajah 1

Based on figure 1, parenting style which is accepting, responsive and at the same time demanding and controlling is classify as authoritative parents. Authoritative parents will make the child to be more socially
and instrumentally competent.

Parenting style which is rejecting, unresponsive and the same time demanding and controlling is classify as authoritarian parents. Authoritarian parents will make the the child or children to perform moderately well in school, few problem behaviours, but poorer social skills, lower self-esteem, and higher levels of depression.

What's more, parenting style which is accepting, responsive and at the same time undemanding and uncontrolling is classify as indulgent parents. Indulgent parents will cause the child to more likely to have problem behaviours, perform less well in school; but higher selfesteem, better social skills, and lower levels of depression.

And last but not least, parenting style which is rejecting, unresponsive and at the same time undemanding and controlling is classify as neglectful parents. Neglectful parents will make the child to perform most poorly in all domains.

Itulah serba sedikit tentang parenting style yg aku belajar kat kolej. Berdasarkan parenting style di atas, yg mana adalah yg terbaik andalah yg menentukannya berdasarkan logik akal yg diberikan Allah S.W.T. Nasihat saya jaga dan didiklah anak anda sebaik yg mungkin supaya dia menjadi manusia yg berjaya di dunia dan di akhirat. Ketahuilah bahawa anak-anak itu ibarat kain putih yg suci dan bersih, maka ibu bapalah yg mencorakkan kain tersebut sama ada ia akan menjadi hasil seni yg cantik dan mempunyai nilai estetika yg tinggi ataupun menjadi hasil seni yg buruk dan rendah nilai estetikanya. :D The End.


Ps: So which parenting style are you going to adapt in your present or future parenting life ? o_O

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